2023 Driver Education Round 3
Say Goodbye to Reckless Driving
Aarav Amin
Ooltewah, Tennessee
Though I have never been in a car accident, I have been in a car with a friend who was driving irresponsibly. One time, I was in a situation where I was sitting in the passenger’s seat with my friend, who was driving. This friend has a very adventurous spirit and carefree attitude. So you would expect that his driving isn’t the safest, and you would be right. There were many different choices he made that I found unsafe, and if my parents knew about them, they would not let me go with him in a car ever again. There was one time where he took a dangerous turn as he pushed the limits of recklessness during our drive. He somehow seemed very excited and continued accelerating, while I was next to him scared for my life because of his complete disregard for road safety. The speedometer climbed, and he weaved through traffic with audacity, pushing the boundaries of recklessness. Attempts to voice concerns were met with dismissive laughter, and my nervous glances at speed limit signs went unnoticed. Then, at one point, just before I was about to actually make a comment on his recklessness, there was a millisecond when he later claimed that he had lost complete control and I believe it because I could feel the car skidding. Luckily, there weren’t any cars near, he regained control of the car and we were alright. A few seconds later, I told him to slow down and stop the car on the shoulder. After he did, there was an awkward silence for at least a minute as both of us were taking deep breaths. Then, I asked him if he was okay. After he responded with an I think so, I told him to start the car up again and drive home, but slowly. On that ride home, he drove so slowly there were elders driving past us. We were not talking at all either. We were both just dead silent and so shocked about what had just happened. Though I cannot know for sure, after this day, he never drove recklessly like that again because of that traumatic experience.
That day served as a wake-up call, it made us realize that reckless driving can lead to serious consequences and it led to a reevaluation of our shared adventures and the need for responsible decision-making behind the wheel. It was a reminder that even though it may seem fun at the moment, driving recklessly is very dangerous and should never compromise people’s safety. We learned that safe driving is a responsibility that is shared by everyone on the road for each other’s well-being, because recklessness could hurt not only us, but also other innocent people on the road.
To become a better and safer driver myself, there is one main thing I need to think about if I am ever close to driving irresponsibly. It is that by doing this, I am putting my own life in danger along with the lives of many others who did nothing to deserve this. Though this will help me, it will not necessarily cause everyone to feel the need to drive safely. Due to this conflict, all high schools should make driver education a requirement to graduate.
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