2024 Driver Education Round 3
Beware the distracted driver
Melia Romo
Grandville, Michigan
One of the most effective ways to prevent accidents and raise awareness is by sharing stories. People learn best from mistakes, when you burn your hand, you learn not to touch a stove, but when making mistakes just isn’t an option, we much learn from other mistakes. When we listen and learn from the real-life experiences of others, it makes the dangers of the road far more relatable. People have an amazing skill called empathy allowing them to realize that it could be them in the same situation. Allowing for a much more personal level understanding that goes beyond filling in blanks in a packet. I believe that drivers’ training courses do a good job at informing people about road safety, many will play videos that give their students a greater understanding. Unfortunately, the reality is that many will delay or avoid attending these classes despite the benefits. They wait until they are 18, they put it off because it’s not affordable or simply because they don’t like classes. This creates a gap in the education of young drivers, leaving them unprepared for the gravity of operating a vehicle. To address this, we need to make these resources more accessible and ensure they truly understand the responsibility of being behind the wheel.
I’ve been in both the passenger seat and the driver’s seat countless times, and what I’ve learned from these experiences is that the moment a car hits yours—when you feel the powerful tug of the collision—the relief of being alive can overwhelm you, but it’s quickly followed by guilt for the ignorance that led up to the crash. I vividly remember the first time I experienced this wave of emotions. I was sitting in the passenger seat of my older sister’s car on our way to our annual camping trip. The excitement made it difficult for me to quiet down. That day, I just couldn’t sit still, I talked my older sister’s ear off, leading me to knocking a cup of soda over, creating a big mess. Before I could finish cleaning up my mess, another car collided with us. Thankfully, no one was injured—only the car sustained damage—but that experience completely changed how I view the importance of driving safely. Since that moment, I’ve been in a few similar situations, none nearly as world bending but each time the moments leading up to the crash would replay in my mind for hours afterward. I find myself thinking, “I shouldn’t have responded to that last message”, “I shouldn’t have been so involved in conversation”, “I should have looked back just one last time”, but none of that changes the reality. The damage had already been done, and it serves as a reminder of how easily a life could be ruined. Through those experiences I’m reminded that driving requires more than just knowing how to operate the car—it requires constant awareness and a firm commitment to driving safely, not just lawfully.
Awareness is step number one towards improving personal driver safety. As drivers we are constantly surrounded by distractions, our phones or the people we allow into our cars. The temptation to check a text or respond to a message while behind the wheel can be overwhelming and hard to ignore. But it’s important to recognize how quickly these distractions can turn into dangerous and irreversible mistakes. Leaving your phone off or at the very least notifications off while behind the wheel can make a world of a difference. Choosing not to drive with someone who might have a negative effect on your driving ability or warning them not to distract you. Deciding to stop the car instead of multitasking. Just a quick glance at your phone, or just a few seconds spent in a heated argument with a passenger. It only takes one momentary lapse of attention to result in devastating consequences.
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