2024 Driver Education Round 3
Drive with your kids in mind
Malia Ioane
Fife, Washington
Experiencing one firsthand was a deeply traumatic event, leaving lasting impressions of fear and vulnerability. The night was stormy and rainy. I was called over by my sister for an emergency. The area was not familiar to me, and I could not see the lights clearly. When I saw a green light, I took off, and out of the corner of my eye, a car sprayed straight at me and T-boned me. My kids' faces suddenly appeared in front of me. The thought of them waiting for mommy at home (luckily) became a nightmare that lasted far too long. The sound of crunching metal and shattering glass filled the air as the impact jolted me violently. My heart raced, and adrenaline surged through my body, numbing the initial pain. As I tried to gather my thoughts, I frantically checked myself for injuries and looked around to see if anyone else was hurt. I woke up in the hospital scared and in pain. The doctor told me I was lucky to be alive. He warned me to take extra precautions in the future and be careful when driving in unfamiliar areas. The aftermath left me shaken and overwhelmed, as I grappled with the realization of how close I came to losing everything.
In the weeks that followed, I was struggling with newfound fear and anxiety. This affected my confidence behind the wheel and caused sleepless nights filled with what-ifs. The memory of the crash replayed in my mind, making me hyper-aware of every intersection and attentive in ways I had never been before. It heightened my awareness of road safety but also deepened my empathy for others who have faced similar situations. It was a stark reminder of how precious life is and how vulnerable we are on the roads. I have become more cautious when driving in bad weather and take extra precautions to stay safe. I have taken steps to address my anxiety, such as talking to a therapist or taking calming breaks in my car before driving. It taught me to be more cautious and mindful of my actions. I make sure everyone buckles up before starting the car, double-checking my mirrors before changing lanes. I've made it a habit to put my phone away to eliminate distractions.
Furthermore, if there's an emergency, especially in adverse weather conditions, I drive at a more cautious speed, thus making sure I have ample time to react to any unexpected situations. I make sure my spare tire is inflated, and my battery is fully charged. I also keep an emergency kit in my car with items like a flashlight, a first aid kit, and a fire extinguisher. I always ensure I have enough fuel in my car. This lesson taught me to teach safe driving to my kids. Not only for their safety but for the safety of others on the road. We have talked about taking time when behind the wheel, no matter the importance. It is better to be late and alive than not to make it at all. I have also appreciated life and being around my kids and loved ones. I taught them to think and plan ahead, and always reminded them to be mindful of their surroundings and expect the unexpected. I tell them to be proactive and prepared.
In addition to these personal safety measures, staying updated on the latest traffic laws and attending regular driving refresher courses can be invaluable. Defensive driving not only reduces accidents but also enhances your ability to remain calm in potentially stressful situations. By anticipating other drivers' actions, you can make more informed decisions and avoid sudden maneuvers that could lead to collisions. Maintaining a safe following distance gives you more time to react to unexpected changes in traffic. This contributes to a smoother and safer driving experience for everyone on the road. Finally, encouraging open discussions about road safety within your family and community can raise awareness and promote collective responsibility for safer driving practices.
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