My Aunt’s Driving: A Reflection

For as long as I can remember, my Aunt Elsa has been a reckless driver. She learned to drive during the 1950s, a time in my country when driving licenses were easily obtained, and most people learned to drive without understanding traffic signs, rules, or guidelines. Licenses could also be easily bought illegally, increasing negligence. My aunt drives impatiently, honking at the car in front the instant the light turns green, tailgating other vehicles, abruptly changing lanes without signaling, and making turns and crossing intersections without precaution. Her unsafe driving habits, which she practices without realizing the potential consequences, make her a dangerous driver who puts herself and others at risk. The act of driving is often taken for granted, viewed as a part of daily life rather than a responsibility that requires constant attention and care. This mindset is prevalent among all of us, whether we accept it or not.

Driving education is crucial for improving skills and ensuring that drivers can navigate roads safely. Training should include both practical and theoretical components. My aunt learned to drive by sitting in the car and having someone explain which pedal was for starting and which was for stopping, as well as how to use the gear shifts. After learning these basics, she started driving on streets and avenues, learning from the few rules she asked about or from what the person teaching her knew. Everything was learned from the experience of the person teaching her, not by an institution with comprehensive knowledge of all the guidelines drivers should follow. This has changed over time; nowadays, everyone has to undergo a course to get their license. However, gaps remain in this training, and due to corruption in my country, some people can illegally pay to obtain a license. A driver without knowledge will never be a safe driver because if you don’t know what you should and shouldn’t do on the road, you’re like a chef without a recipe.

Self-awareness is vital for a driver to keep themselves and others safe from accidents. My aunt has never accepted criticism or suggestions from others regarding their perception of how she drives. She either avoids or denies any inappropriate or irresponsible actions while at the wheel. Think about how you are driving and constantly ask yourself what things you could improve. Ask others who have been in a car driven by you how they felt and if they have any suggestions for you. There are always things you could improve. Always remember that someone could be injured or die because of your actions. You could be acting like my aunt and not realizing it. Ironically, she has never been in a car accident while driving or as a passenger, but just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it never will

Equally important is never considering yourself a good-enough driver. As time goes by, people gain more and more confidence in their driving, but this confidence is not always beneficial because it can make you too comfortable, leading you to think you are doing everything right. Some of my aunt’s irresponsible driving stems from this exact predisposition. She often uses the phrase, ‘This is not my first time driving.’ Experience can certainly make you better at anything, including driving, but not if you have been doing it wrong all along. Do not assume you are a good driver just because you don’t drive under the influence of alcohol or drugs and don’t speed. These are not the only causes of car accidents.

Moreover, promoting a culture of responsibility and respect on the roads can lead to significant improvements in overall road safety. This involves not only individual efforts but also collective action. Communities can support driving education programs, advocate for stricter enforcement of traffic laws, and encourage safe driving campaigns. Governments and institutions should work together to eliminate corruption in the licensing process, ensuring that only qualified individuals are allowed to drive. Additionally, incorporating periodic assessments and refresher courses for drivers, regardless of their age, can help maintain high standards of driving competence and awareness.

In conclusion, the story of my Aunt Elsa teaches the importance of driving education, self-awareness, and a commitment to learning and improving as a driver. Drivers need to be willing to address the possibilities for improvement. It is crucial for every driver to embrace continuous education, accept constructive criticism, and remain aware of their behavior behind the wheel. By doing so, we can all contribute to a safer driving environment and prevent the tragedies that reckless driving can cause. Remember, safety on the road begins with each of us acknowledging our imperfections and striving to be better drivers every day.