Steps to Ensure Safety for Yourself and Others on the Road

Driving has become a routine task for many of us, whether it’s commuting to work, attending school, visiting loved ones, or exploring our surroundings. Because we drive so frequently, it often feels automatic, as though we’re on autopilot. This habitual approach has dulled our awareness of the dangers inherent in driving. However, by adopting more vigilant and intentional habits, we can not only protect ourselves but also contribute to safer roads for everyone.

Emotional stability can play a critical role in promoting safe driving. Maintaining a calm and positive mindset during your journey can positively impact your driving skills. When you are in control of your emotions, you are less likely to make impulsive decisions. For instance, a driver honking can create feelings of urgency, which can lead to a dangerous decision, like turning at an intersection before it is safe to do so. By remaining calm and in control, drivers can resist pressure that can come from others and act only when it is safe, prioritizing their safety and others on the road. The ability to stay calm not only helps avoid being pressured by impatient drivers but also plays a crucial role in preventing road rage, a common and dangerous issue that arises when emotions go out of control when behind the wheel. Road rage can be triggered by a combination of factors. Running late, perceived slights such as being honked at or not being able to merge, or general stress can all contribute to an emotional blowup on the road. It is easy to give into road rage and feel tempted to retaliate against other drivers, whether by speeding up to cut them off or tailgating to express frustration. However, the best course of action to take during times like these is to pull over safely and take a moment to decompress. Whether by doing breathing exercises or listening to calming music. Resume driving when you are in a state to do so safely. Focusing on “teaching another driver a lesson” rather than staying attentive to the road can impose a serious risk to yourself and others. By understanding these triggers and working towards coping mechanisms that can help you remain calm, you are actively making the road a safer place for your community. It is important to set a good example for your loved ones and for future drivers. If you feel uncomfortable with a new driver copying your habits, it might be time to self-reflect and see how you can replace bad habits with good ones.

Safe driving does not stop at the individual level, there are many steps you can take to make your community a safer place. If you see a loved one participating in dangerous driving habits, such as texting, speeding, or tailgating, find a way to respectfully encourage them to reconsider their actions. By speaking up, you are holding the driver accountable and allowing them to reflect and make safer choices. Let them know the importance of staying focused and defensive driving can be the difference that avoids a tragic accident. The driver is responsible for the lives of their passengers and other drivers around them, it might not feel that way, but this is the reality. For new drivers, enforce good habits, such as putting your phone away out of reach. Start their journey with good, strong, habits. Finally, support local campaigns that promote safe driving. In my community, the sheriff’s department offers a program called the “Teen Driver Challenge”. This program addresses the dangers teen experience while driving, such as texting, speeding, or driving under the influence. It shows teen drivers defensive driving techniques, how to inspect their vehicle, and the repercussions of bad driving habits. It has proven to be a very successful program in our community, often the number of participants exceeds available spots. There is even a donation page, in case you cannot make it to a class, this encourages all members of the community to participate, regardless of age or time. Encourage new drivers to explore similar programs, invite friends, and recognize the impact of becoming responsible drivers in their community.

The importance of vigilance becomes even clearer when reflecting on personal experiences. Recently, a peer of mine suddenly passed away in an accident. Her loss is felt deeply in our community, she was an intelligent and kind young woman who had a bright future ahead of her. It is incredibly important to remain vigilant in obeying signs and traffic lights. When it is dark out, slow down, as it might be harder to see signs at night. Follow the speed limit, even when the road is empty, animals tend to jump out in the middle of the road, and you will need to react quickly and safely. It is easy to drive on “autopilot” on familiar roads, it is crucial to stay focused and alert. My peers passing has been a wakeup call in our community, she is not the first and will not be the last victim of unsafe driving. We are all human, we make mistakes. However, a mistake while driving can change lives in an instant. That night, someone lost a daughter, a friend, and a partner. When an accident happens, it does not stop at who is involved in that moment. Her tragic and sudden passing is a reminder of how a small mistake can have a lasting impact. As a community, we are honoring her memory and supporting the family and all who are involved.

Safe driving is a shared responsibility that extends beyond individual habits to the broader community. By staying attentive, managing emotions, and practicing patience, we can reduce accidents and make driving a safer experience for all. Educating ourselves and others about responsible driving habits is key to fostering a culture of safety and accountability. Every decision made behind the wheel carries the potential to save lives, reminding us that driving is not just a convenience but a responsibility. Through awareness and deliberate effort, we can create safer roads and a better future for our communities. Drive safely—not just for yourself but for the loved ones waiting for you to come home.