Daddy knows best

I believe my dad might have trouble hearing. As far as I know, he hasn’t been officially diagnosed with a hearing issue, but whenever I call out to him, he often seems oblivious. So, it wasn’t surprising when, on a chilly February afternoon in 2023, he nearly got hit by a car. When my parents started letting me go out on my own in my early teens, they always reminded me to use my eyes and ears when crossing the street. They told me to look both ways and listen for any approaching cars. They warned against walking with headphones and advised me to keep my focus on the road instead of my phone. Did my dad forget his own advice? Even though the crosswalk signal was in his favor, the driver wasn’t paying attention, their eyes glued to their phone. My dad confessed that he was checking the time on his phone and didn’t hear the car zoom by, missing him by just a few inches. The shock on his face when he told me this story really stuck with me. It was a serious reminder of how dangerous the roads can be—not just for drivers but for everyone—and how easily accidents can be avoided with proper attention and awareness.

Driver education and awareness are critical for reducing car accidents and fatalities. Many new drivers, especially teenagers, often lack the experience and awareness needed to maneuver the roads safely. Driver education programs teach essential skills, like understanding traffic signs, following traffic laws, and reacting appropriately to potential dangers. Studies show that drivers who complete formal training are less likely to get into accidents compared to those who don’t. These programs also emphasize the importance of safe driving habits, such as wearing seatbelts, avoiding distractions, and not driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

As a high school student who just got a learner’s permit, I understand that becoming a safe driver starts with acknowledging the responsibility I have every time I get in the car. The first few times I got behind the wheel, I was nervous. Driving always seemed so natural when I watched my dad do it, but now it was my turn, and I realized how much there is to think about: steering, watching the speedometer, checking mirrors, and staying aware of everything happening around me. During my first few lessons, my hands gripped the wheel so tightly that they ached afterward, and I kept asking my dad, “Am I doing this right?” I’m just beginning my driving journey, but I already know some important steps to ensure I drive safely and responsibly. One of the first things I can do is to remove distractions. This means keeping my phone out of reach because no text or call is worth taking my eyes off the road. Even though I love blasting my favorite tunes while dancing in my room, I realize that I need to keep the music at a low volume when I’m driving. It’s also crucial for me to stay aware of other drivers, pedestrians, and any potential dangers on the road.

My dad might not hear everything perfectly, but he knows how to take excellent care of cars. When my dad’s car starts showing signs that it needs maintenance, he doesn’t waste any time. If he hears an unusual noise, like squeaking brakes or a rattling sound, he’ll stop and check under the hood right away. For issues he can’t identify, he’ll schedule a trip to the mechanic as soon as possible. One thing I’ve learned from him is how important it is to listen to your car. If it’s making a noise or doesn’t feel right, he says it’s always better to fix the problem early rather than risk it worsening down the road. I can hear his strong Trinidadian accent saying, “A well-maintained car is less likely to have issues that could cause an accident.” He’s taught me the importance of being a responsible driver, and I always try to share that advice with others. If I see my cousin texting or driving carelessly, I don’t hesitate to say something. It can be a bit uncomfortable since he’s older than me, but I think it’s better to speak up than to risk an accident. Even though I’m usually just a passenger, I stay alert and follow the rules because I believe safe driving is important for everyone. Whether I’m in the car as a student driver or just riding along, I’m committed to safety. And when I’m walking on the street, I always remember to look both ways and pay attention to my surroundings by using my eyes and my ears too.