Cool Isn’t Worth Dying For

90… 100… 110… 118. The speedometer climbed faster and faster as the car sped down the road. At first, I thought it was cool—the thrill of going that fast—but with every number, my fear grew louder than my excitement. Sitting in the backseat, heart pounding, I realized how quickly things could go wrong. My friend behind the wheel was pushing the limits, and the passenger cheered him on, but all I could think about was how one mistake, one animal, or one sudden turn could end it all. That moment taught me that looking cool behind the wheel isn’t worth risking your life.

Teen driver safety is a critical public issue because so many young lives are lost or changed forever due to risky driving behaviors. Each year, thousands of teens lose their lives or suffer serious injuries because of preventable crashes. These tragedies not only affect the victims but also their families, friends, and communities. The impact is devastating and lasting. Drivers in their teens often face distractions like phones, peer pressure to take risks, and a lack of experience that can make it hard to make safe decisions. Many teens struggle to resist the temptation of texting or using social media while driving, even though they know it’s dangerous. Peer pressure can push some to take risks they wouldn’t otherwise consider. Without enough experience, they may underestimate how quickly a situation can turn deadly. My own experience in that speeding car showed me firsthand how dangerous it can be when young drivers try to impress their friends instead of thinking about safety.

Driver education plays a vital role in reducing deaths by teaching young people not just how to drive, but how to understand the real consequences of their choices. When I took my driver’s education and drug and alcohol courses, I saw videos and heard stories that brought the dangers of reckless driving to life. One video showed a man hit by a car at high speed, flying yards across the pavement. It was terrifying and unforgettable. These lessons make a difference because they help young drivers realize that their actions don’t just affect themselves, but everyone around them.

Another memory sticks with me even more. One of my dad’s friends went out to a bar one night, drove under the influence, and never made it home. She missed a turn and crashed her cherry red roadster into a massive oak tree. She died instantly. My dad blamed himself for her being at the bar that night. But the pain didn’t stop there. One of her close friends, who was dating my dad at the time, cut ties with our family after the crash. Because of a lie the woman told before her death, that friend no longer trusted us. Her son was one of my best friends, and I lost him too. One crash caused a wave of loss that affected everyone it touched.

Despite these experiences, I have committed myself to becoming a safer, more responsible driver. I drive within the speed limit, no matter how late I am, and always slow down at yellow lights. I know that even if I’m careful, I can’t control how others drive, so I stay alert and ready for anything. I also talk to my friends about the dangers of speeding and distractions, encouraging them to make safer choices. It’s important for teens to hold each other accountable and create a culture where safety is respected, not mocked. Being safe behind the wheel is more than just a personal choice. It’s also about helping others see the importance of making smart decisions.

To promote safer driving among teens, schools and communities can do more than just require driver’s education classes. They can host awareness events featuring real stories like mine and others who have lost loved ones. Peer-led programs can be powerful too—when teens hear from their friends about the dangers of risky driving, the message hits harder. Parents also play a key role by setting examples and having honest conversations about the risks and responsibilities of driving. Community programs can provide ongoing support and education beyond initial driver’s ed classes. Workshops, safe driving challenges, and involvement from local law enforcement can keep the conversation about safe driving alive and relevant.

At the end of the day, driver education is about changing minds and saving lives. No one can force a person to drive safely, but education opens eyes to the consequences and helps teens choose life over thrills. My experience in that speeding car was a wake-up call. I’ve learned that driving isn’t about looking cool—it’s about being responsible for yourself and everyone else on the road. That lesson will guide me as I continue driving and as I encourage others to do the same.