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In the Drivers Seat

Name: Mohamed toure
From: Darby, PA
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Learning how to drive has been one of the biggest steps for me in growing up. At first, I thought it was just about knowing how to move a car, but once I started, I realized it’s really about responsibility, patience, and staying aware of everything around you. Driving has taught me lessons that go way past just being on the road.

When I first began learning, my dad took me to a vacant lot. He drove me around a few laps so I could see how it worked, then he put me in the driver’s seat. That was the moment it became real. I remember gripping the wheel tight, nervous but excited at the same time. I picked up driving pretty fast, but he always reminded me to slow down. He taught me to always stop at stop signs and check left and right before making a turn. He also told me that driving isn’t just about the moment you’re behind the wheel—you also have to be ready for the responsibilities, like monthly car maintenance. Those lessons stuck with me early on and made me understand that driving is a lot more serious than it looks from the outside.

As I kept learning, I realized driving wasn’t as simple as I thought. At first, it was overwhelming to keep track of everything—the mirrors, the rules, the traffic, and the car itself. I struggled a lot with parallel parking. My first few tries were bad, and I felt frustrated. But I kept practicing, and eventually, I got it. That moment taught me patience and reminded me not to give up just because something feels hard at the start. Learning to drive gave me confidence, but it also humbled me because I had to fail a few times before I got better.

Another thing driving gave me was independence. I could finally get places on my own without needing a ride. That freedom felt amazing. I remember the first time I drove myself to school—it felt like a big accomplishment, even though it was just a normal day. Being able to drive myself to school, work, or just out somewhere made me feel more mature and responsible. It was more than just traveling—it was like gaining a piece of my adulthood. Knowing I could get in the car and go wherever I needed without depending on someone else gave me a new kind of confidence.

I’ve also used what I learned to help others. I once helped an ex-girlfriend learn how to drive. I showed her tips I picked up, like checking blind spots and staying calm. It felt good to pass on what I knew because I remembered how nervous I was when I first started. Helping her reminded me that being patient and kind can really make a difference for somebody else. That experience also showed me that teaching someone else forces you to be even more careful and thoughtful with your own driving.

Driver education also opened my eyes to how much driving affects everyone. Every choice on the road matters. It’s not just about keeping yourself safe, but everyone else too. That made me realize driving is bigger than just me—it’s about protecting the community and respecting the lives around me. I think a lot about the dangers of distracted driving and how one careless decision can change everything. I make it a point to always wear my seatbelt, avoid my phone, and remind my friends to stay focused too.

I carry the lessons from driver’s ed into other parts of my life. At school and in work-study, I’ve learned that being organized and responsible is just like driving—you have to stay focused, pay attention, and plan ahead. Even volunteering at school events has felt connected to this idea of responsibility. I’m also part of the National Technical Honor Society and the ACT 101 program, and the discipline I built while learning to drive has helped me succeed in those too.

Looking back, those first laps in the vacant lot with my dad were the start of something way bigger than just getting a license. Driving taught me patience, responsibility, and how to take care of myself and others. It gave me independence, confidence, and showed me that I can handle challenges if I keep practicing. And by helping others, I learned that sharing what you know is just as important as learning it yourself.

 

Driver education wasn’t just a class for me—it was an experience that shaped me. It prepared me not just for the road, but also for life.