The Unspoken Crossfire

Driving remains to be a largely unspoken source of deaths as everyone remains susceptible to the byproduct of carelessness or lack of forethought. Be it drunk driving, fatigue, stress, or anything else, a multitude of possibilities lurks as a possible reason for an accident. Much like the casualties in a war, not only those involved are at risk as the crossfire of someone’s poor decisions can affect passengers, other drivers, or even pedestrians abiding by safe practices. For the safety of everyone, discussing sources of distractions and ways to stay safe remains imperative to solving this issue.

Being a teen driver, my experience driving is comparably low, yet I have noticed myself implementing small changes to force safe driving habits on myself and friends. An immutable rule everyone should be following regardless of state regulations should be to avoid electronics until safely stopped. The temptation of glancing at a notification is understandably there for many of us but acknowledging the safety risks associated and drawing a hard line helps. Similarly, wearing a seatbelt should be a mindless task built into driving that everyone practices. Lastly, keeping mindful of driving distractions remains imperative. Continually being aware of what may distract you, and making the necessary changes should be practiced, though remains a continually changing process unlike other simpler to implement advice. Having conversations about personal distractions with friends may help also bring light to other sources of danger you were previously unaware of.

Unfortunately, I have been in one minor car accident as a distracted driver rear-ended my car in a left turn. Despite being lucky enough to not get hurt, the experience opened my eyes to the reality that nobody is immune to the risk of a crash even if they drive safely. Channeling this energy into a positive outlet, the incident made me think more about ways to stay safe on the road from external distractions and other unsafe drivers. I sought to be mindful of my mental state, but also remain aware of the driving habits of those around me to avoid dangerous situations.

The main steps I strive to implement to be a better and safer driver is to remain mindful of sources of danger and talking with friends about their driving habits. Being mindful of my mental state with factors such as medication, sleep, and stress remains the most substantial personal implementation. In situations where I am driving with friends, I have made it a priority to voice concern if I feel they are driving recklessly. Though seemingly intimidating, the conversation does not need to be accusatory and typically helps let others be aware of the changes they could implement. Talks like that often help strengthen driving skills for others, but also helped build priceless communication from which they have suggested driving advice to me also. Lastly, I try to plan and steer clear of possibly unsafe circumstances. If I suspect I will be tired or stressed, I will drive early accordingly, or if I see an unsafe driver on the road, will make a note to avoid them until safe. Though driving remains a minefield of possible risks, through staying informed and implementing safe driving habits we can all help reduce the dangers of driving for everyone.